What to wear for the pre-shoot?

September 2017

What to wear for the pre-wedding shoot? Think about the following:

  • Check the weather
  • What time of year is it?
  • Your style of clothing
  • Think colours - colourful photos can look amazing
  • Formal or Casual?
  • Makeup and hair style
  • Contact lenses or glasses
  • Think about props (signs)
  • Bring your child for the start of the session
  • Bring your dog for the start of the session

There are so many words for this: engagement photo session, pre-wedding photo session, pre-shoot, but essentially they all mean the same for couples who are celebrating their wedding in the UK: a photo session with your wedding photographer a few months or weeks before your wedding day.

Wear something you don't mind sitting down on the grass with :)


Lots and lots of photographs from recent pre-wedding shoots here.

I photograph a lot of my brides and grooms-to-be a few months before their wedding and I am often asked what I recommend they should wear for the engagement photo shoot.

This is a very good question, and the following article will give you a few ideas to think about for your pre-wedding shoot in Edinburgh (or anywhere else, for that matter).

1. Check the weather

Check the weather a day before the engagement shoot. If the forecast is cold and windy, please wear something warmer so you are comfortable and don't look frozen in the photographs. If you don’t like the heavy-jacket look, wear a coat that can be easily taken off while the photos are being taken, and then you can put it back on again. Guys sometimes turn up with just jeans and t-shirt, but it's good to bring a jacket or a jumper during the colder months.

It was raining heavily during this pre-shoot, but nevertheless, lots of fun, wear for pre-shoot
It was raining heavily during this pre-shoot, but nevertheless, lots of fun.

2. Time of year

If you have a summer pre-shoot, you might want to wear a floaty summer dress, guys can bring some cool sunglasses, and wear a nice shirt. If you have an autumn photo shoot, a nice cosy jacket, and a colourful scarf might be an option, and it will also keep you warm. For the winter, colourful hats, funky gloves (if that’s your style!!), a warm and cosy coat are recommended.

Left: January, lots of sleet during the shoot, but this makes for great reflections of water on the surface. Right: An autumn pre-wedding photo session with lots of sunshine, but cooler temperatures, wear for pre-shoot
Left: January, lots of sleet during the shoot, but this makes for great reflections of water on the surface.
Right: An autumn pre-wedding photo session with lots of sunshine, but cooler temperatures.
Wooly hats can look awesome in photos, wear for pre-shoot
Woolly hats can look awesome in photos.

3. Style of clothing

Think Sunday brunch: Smart, casual, comfy.

Imagine you have an invite for a Sunday brunch in town with your best friends. What would you wear for that? That’s the perfect outfit for a pre-shoot! It’s a little bit smart, it’s a little bit casual, and it’s comfy too.

4. Colours

Bold colours always look amazing in photographs. You do not need to hire a stylist to match both the bride's and groom's choice of colours for their pre-shoot, simply choose colours you both adore. If you wear your favourite colour, you will feel great and it will make you look great.

Bright colours work amazingly well for photos
Bright colours look great in photographs, wear for pre-shoot
Bright colours look great in photographs.

5. How formal?

Avoid too formal dressing, as the pre-shoot is mostly about having fun. Your photographer might ask you to run towards her, you might be ask to sit down on the grass, or in the sand on the beach, you might walk across a field, the groom might feel inclined to lift the bride-to-be up and swing her round or carry her on his back. These things make for really fun photographs and if you’re wearing a pencil skirt they might be difficult.

6. Make-up / hair

Most of my brides-to-be put a bit of make-up on, and do their own hair. You do not need to go the hairdressers and / or hire a make-up artist for a pre-shoot, unless you really want to, and it’s your style.

7. Glasses vs contact lenses

I often get asked about wearing glasses on the wedding day. It’s entirely up to you and what you feel comfortable with. The pre-shoot is a perfect opportunity to try out different looks without the time-constraits of the wedding day.

I wear glasses personally and I love my glasses. However, on our wedding day (in 2018) I will wear contact lenses. I cannot wear contact lenses on a regular basis as my eyes are too dry. So on our wedding day, I will need to use eye drops regularly to keep my eyes hydrated.

Brides and grooms often worry about the reflections on glasses, but a good photographer knows how to use light and position their customers so that the glasses look natural.

Keeping out of direct sunlight avoids the reflections on the glasses, wear for pre-shoot
Keeping out of direct sunlight avoids the reflections on the glasses.

The biggest issue I face on both the wedding day and during pre-wedding photo sessions, if the person's glasses are self-tinting. So even on a typical grey day in Scotland, they can look like they wear sunglasses.

Portraits are always better if you can see the subject's eyes, wear for pre-shoot
Portraits are always better if you can see the subject's eyes.

8. Props

In the olden days, people included props in their photographs. You will have seen photographs taken in a studio where the model was holding something, such as a book, or a picture frame they look through (cheesy...!).

If you want to have a bit of fun, you can organise a few photography props, such as balloons, or confetti, or bring an item from your home you both love, such as the teddy that lives in your bed (we have one of those…!). Whatever you can think of that shows who you are as a couple, include it. This might also be your lovingly restored VW camper-van, or a motorbike, or your dog.

If you have cool sunglasses - bring them :) 
op to a photograph can add a bit of style and humour, wear for pre-shoot
Adding a prop can add a bit of style and humour.

And what about...

9. your children

On occasion, the couples who book me as their wedding photographer in Edinburgh, Scotland already have children. It is quite natural for them to ask if they can bring their little one to the pre-shoot and double it up and have some family photos taken at the same time.

In general, this is totally OK for me. However, I would request that you bring a friend your child knows well, or one of the grandparents. I would take a few photos of mummy, daddy and the wee one at the start of the pre-wedding photo session. Then grandma can go for a walk with the little one - preferably out of sight and earshot, so you guys can totally concentrate on being in front of the camera and do not need to worry about your little one behaving, or falling over, or being upset over something.

Children can add something special to a photograph, wear for pre-shoot
Children can add something special to a photograph.
Include children in your photographs but they don't need to be in every photo, wear for pre-shoot
Include children in your photographs but they don't need to be in every photo.
Telling a story with the children is an important aspect, wear for pre-shoot
Telling a story with the children is an important aspect.
And make sure your spread of photographs tells a tale, wear for pre-shoot
And make sure your spread of photographs tells a tale.

10. Your dog

A lot of my customers have furry children and I am often asked if they can bring their dog to the pre-shoot. In general - yes, of course! But I would encourage they organise a dog sitter for the duration of the pre-shoot who comes along for half an hour. I would include the dog in the photographs at the start of the photo session, and then your friend can take the dog for a walk while I concentrate on the romantic photos. This is a good compromise for getting both furry love and human love  combined in one photo shoot :)

Your pet can help you relax and feel comfortable in a photo shoot, wear for pre-shoot
Your pet can help you relax and feel comfortable in a photo shoot.
Happy couples enjoying their engagement, wear for pre-shoot
Happy couples enjoying their engagement.
Couples trying out looks and building a relationship with their photographer,wear for pre-shoot
Couples trying out looks and building a relationship with their photographer.
What is a pre-wedding shoot?

Who is Nadin Dunnigan - Family & Secret Proposal Photographer in Edinburgh

Hey, I am Nadin! (same as "Nadine" - just without the "e"). I am a photographer in Edinburgh, Scotland, specialising in secret engagement proposals in Edinburgh, Scotland and further afield. After 17 years of photographing weddings in Scotland and internationally, my business has changed during the pandemic.

Proposals are so much fun to be part of. I get so excited every single time I see the couple walking to their favourite spot and the most romantic question is imminent!

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